If you are considering hotel sex once in a while, here are six tips to ensure you will have an unforgettable experience:

1. Ensure It’s Special

Obviously, sex in a hotel room will feel quite different from what you are used to at home. You want it to look and feel very different than your normal environment. Go the extra mile to make it even more special.

• Keep the window blinds open as you are having sex
• Find a hotel room that smacks of sex appeal
• A mirror over the bed so you and your partner can see all the action
• Position the hotel bed in front of the mirror and watch yourself as you have fun

Why do these things? You are looking for every way that can take you out of your usual sex environment or situation. The idea is to bring on the heat and spice. The lowest hanging fruit is the environment. Sure, you might have to do some research, but the work of the nest is done for you by the hotel

2. Drinks Are a Good Way to Start

Sex is about the art of seduction. So, why not start with drinks? The sexier the drink, the better. Choose a hotel with a hot looking bar that isn’t too crowded, or if you’re more daring, mix it up with some drinks in the room. The idea is not to get sloppy drunk, the idea is to get turned on.

Sex can actually start at the bar. You can pretend to be strangers and share drinks before proceeding to the hotel room, a little role playing can do a psyche good. Order drinks you never would during a normal outing – you’ll at least have a conversation starter. The idea is to capture that new feeling, that sexy feeling. Feel like you are having sex with your partner for the first time.

3. No Bed This Time Round

You are used to having sex in bed at home, right? Time to try something different. Hotel sex is not time for missionary or sex positions you are used to. Bring the chains of home life and weekend sex. This is your time to be as sexy and daring as you like.

Consider having sex in the balcony or bathtub. If the bathtub is not the ideal then try shower sex and see how it feels. Most hotel rooms are going to have a shower, and with a little research you can find the hotel room for you with a perfect shower for sex. Try to avoid showers with tub combinations or shower curtains. If you can position yourself so the mirror is in play – bonus points. If there is a jacuzzi, consider having sex there too – we love that.

Also, make your sex experience unforgettable by trying different sex positions, including standing, reverse cowgirl, chair sex,  and butterfly.

4. Don’t Keep It Down

There is nothing to limit your sex experience in a hotel room. You are now away from kids, and you got the freedom to do what you’ve always desired to do during sex. As long as you don’t wake up other hotel occupants, scream as much as you can. You’ve done the homework and planning, now it is time to enjoy. Experiment with moaning and panting. Bring out the dirty talk. Thrust and bounce so hard that you think the bed may break. A major benefit of sexual noises is that—if genuine—the noises demonstrate that the partner is not indifferent; in this sense, noise is better than complete silence. In other words, having sex in a hotel is an opportunity to express yourself. Do everything you’ve never done at home.

5. Focus entirely on your partner and the sex in the moment

Having sex in a hotel room is a moment to pay attention and really focus on your partner. So, it’s time to forget about the TV, smartphone, or WiFi. Put your phone away, unless you’re filming on your phone – in that case use a tripod so you can use both hands. The point is to make your partner the focus – spend extra time in all the areas you might not otherwise.

Simply put, stay in the moment. Mindfulness has these main functions:

• It enhances lubrication
• It improves sexual desire
• It improves sexual function and satisfaction
• It increases dopamine in the brain
• Makes orgasms stronger

Try and ensure the room has little or no interruptions. Turn off the ringer and hide the remote. Also use this time to focus on sex you don’t normally. Try practicing some deep throat you’ve been thinking about, cum twice for a change, experiment with anal. The goal is to ensure you have better sex than what you’re used to at home.

6. Make a Mess

Away from home, it’s time to be a little bit more careless. After all, you don’t have to clean a hotel room. So, dig into the bedsheets and rip them right off. Bring food and drink champagne in the bed or bathtub, see our article on food in bed. Aside from food, you can try some NURU, lay some plastic sheets down and slip and slide your way to a couple of orgasms. Not just mess in that sense though, don’t be afraid to cum loudly – now’s the time to not worry about where that cum shot is going to land. Someone else will clean the sheets and towels, you concentrate on the fun stuff.

The Takeaway

Unlike your home, a hotel room is an unfamiliar place where you can try many things to ensure you will have an unforgettable sex experience. So, don’t waste this moment by engaging in boring sex. In short, ensure the sex experience is unique.