1. Spanking.

Once you get familiar with spanking your husband or partner, the act itself will become something like a badge of office.

2. Pegging. 

Use a strap-on with your partner you’re going to peg with and enough lube to drown a horse. Choose a softer silicone model Strap-on with a vibe that also pleasured the wearer.

3. Tying up.

Many, many men are into this, and we could spend days analyzing that fact. Trust us, it’s fun. You can bind his wrists or ankles together with regular cuffs or invest in a hogtie system to bind all four together behind his back and really stretch his body out! Under-the-bed-restraints make it easy to turn your bedroom into a sex dungeon. See our article on fantasy play.

5.Sissy Play.

Some guys secretly love dressing up in frilly underpants, stockings, garter belters, and other woman’s clothing. And others hate it. Either way, you can leverage the “sissification” of your submissive to your advantage by rewarding him with something lacy or punishing him with it!

6. Foot Worship. 

Is there anything more subservient than an adoring partner kissing or licking your shoes? No! Plus, prodding, kicking, or stepping is one way to literally put your foot down in this relationship!

7. Lingerie, etc.

Some guys are into it, some don’t care that much, few will complain, and you might feel super-sexy, so try at will.

8. Cock and Ball Bondage. 

Take your time and lean into cock and ball play. The best way to get started is with a cock ring, we’re big fans of cock rings. If you’re just starting out, try a stretchy cock ring on for size, they are easier to put on and get off. Once the cock in question is comfortable wearing that, then graduate to the more advanced stone, glass, or metal cock ring. Cock rings are very rewarding when done right.

9.Teasing.

The final element that every femdom scene needs is a little teasing. Whether your lover’s bound or you’ve instructed him not to touch you, make a noise or get hard, you have got to tease him! This will push him to his limits.