Sometimes you may want a longer make-out session with your partner! Sexy, long kisses are easy to achieve with some passion and proper technique. Start with slow and gradual kisses, then increase the passion with some tongue and touch. Knowing how to kiss with tongue is a necessary skill for the modern lover. Passionate kisses convey your desire, emotion, and love to your boyfriend or girlfriend, so pucker up!

When getting started making out or simply kissing, don’t take your tongue out foolishly to kiss at first. It’s just bad manners and you have to let the passion build! Leave a little room for your lips to explore hers. Don’t take your tongue out and slobber her face with it or try and stick it down her throat. First-time kissers should first spend time on just making lip contact. When initiating a kiss, it is helpful to be close to your partner in some sort of semi-cuddle. Give your partner small pecks across their cheeks and neck. When you want to go for a long kiss, it is best to start slowly and gradually to turn up the passion. Kiss your partner’s hand, arm, chest, ear, and/or cheek. Save the lips for last. They may reciprocate with similar kisses across your body.

No matter what kind of kiss you’re having, it is important to get into a steady rhythm before trying anything new. Use this as a rule of thumb for any sexual or intimate encounter you have! It’s also a great rule of thumb to use when kissing, because it will avoid confusion or your tongues getting mixed up and things getting awkward. Let your bodies naturally lean into the next step when you’re in a groove. As the mood heats up, wrap your arms around your partner and begin to use your hands to suggest you want to kiss deeper. Pull them closer if you need to with a little force or place your hand behind their neck so there is no space in between you.

Taking breaks during kissing is almost as important as the actual kissing itself! A quick pause allows for you to reset the rhythm of your kiss, swallow any accumulated spit, or just clean up your kiss a little. Whether kissing them with tongue or otherwise, slow kisses are a recipe for romance. Although fast and uncontrollable passion is great, taking it slow will make them think you mean every kiss you give them.

Pay attention to their body language and their mouth. There will be signs to speed up, slow down and go deeper. The roadmap of kissing will lead to other things so don’t be afraid to kiss other areas and then come back to their mouth. I find nothing sexier than when my partner goes from kissing me to giving me head and then kissing again. It might help to think of your partners mouth as a second genital as ofter the same tongue flickers can be as erotic.

Once deep in the passion, swirl your tongues together. Use the tip of your tongue and swirl it in circles around your partner’s tongue. Since the tip of the tongue contains many nerve endings, this motion can be incredibly stimulating. When raising your intensity, use your lips to create a gentle suction during the kiss. Take your partner’s bottom lip, upper lip, or tongue in your mouth and suck lightly. Take time to pull away and take in the scene. Taking brief breaks from your partner’s mouth can increase their desire and stimulate other erogenous zones. Also don’t leave out the nibbles. A little nibble bite on the lip and a kiss on the side of the mouth will enhance your kissing technique. In the end it is about being erotic and having fun and let’s hope this world class kissing all leads to world class fucking.